...But that’s only partly useful if you have not yet won the most important struggle for liberation, which is the freedom from your own unconscious habits and conditional responses. Becoming an independent agent who’s not an unwitting slave to his or her past is one of the most heroic feats a human being can accomplish.
A broken heart is a gift the world gives you to awaken you to the truth about what matters to you most.
You must choose between liking the life you live and living the life you like. Try the latter. You’ll be happier.